That's my maternal grandmother, Nana, in the snapshot. My cousins called her Gramma "Jo" which is the name she went by. Jo O'Keefe. Funny how we didn't all call her the same thing. She was a nurse, a kind, gentle woman with quiet, graceful ways. My mother says she was a talented flower arranger, something I think about every time I stick a stem in a vase now. This snapshot ended up on my dress form so it wouldn't get lost one day. It's from my 5th birthday party at Holiday Hill.
Nana was a country girl, a little uncomfortable in the fancy society of a doctor's wife living in the suburbs. I remember a patient, caring grandmother who loved the outdoors, the simple pleasures of a day with family, out in a field or in a cabin. She passed away when I was a little girl and my memories are faded like the print dresses she wore, but I have her knitting bag and the paperback knitting guide she used. Her penciled handwriting is ghosted out on some pages, but those were the patterns I learned by heart, using her notes to set them in my fingers. The patterns are for unfussy pieces, sturdy ribbed sweaters, socks, mufflers and sailor's watch caps. The Brooks Jacket was my favorite to knit for my girls.
Thinking of my Nana and my mom today, of the gifts and talents they passed along to me, casually, just in the day-to-day of things. Thinking how so much of a person can be present in so much of what we do, who we are- and we hardly know it. It's tough to pick that out sometimes, to see those threads among the rest of the weave. That sturdy, sensible part is a strong maternal thread and I'm so grateful it's woven in to keep the other parts of me in place.
Nana would be proud of my crafty ways, my affection for the past. She and my mother too would have loved the luxury of an event like Silver Bella, a getaway celebration of women and the traditions of art and craft that we share. We are such a fortunate generation of daughters and granddaughters- cut from the same cloth, but embroidered with lots of splendor and sparkle. And love, lots and lots of good old-fashioned love. xoC
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